Islamic view on dating
Although Irshad's family isn't aganist her dating, they have taken things into their own hands."My parents and my grandparents are constantly asking other people, anyone they meet 'do you know anyone good for my daughter? Irshad says her parents aren’t pushing her into a marriage, rather "helping" in the process.There are certain customs that all Muslims are expected to follow, but since Islam is interpreted in many ways across many cultures, it is difficult to make sweeping generalizations.The vast complexity of Islam is compounded by cultural variations among Muslims.
I have seen this play out so many times in my own family and community that it no longer surprises me.
"The only evidence that they had that the other person existed before their marriage night was simply a small black-and-white picture and the good wishes of a couple of relatives," he says.
"That's all they knew." Shaikh's parents are Muslim and they lived in India at the time of their wedding back in the 1970s.
Her cousin showed the photos to Iqbal’s aunt, who later told her mother.
“She was mad,” Iqbal, now 18, said in a phone interview.